Is the Person You’re Seeing Still Actively Online Dating?
New girlfriend is still using dating website! - The Relationship Forums
However, he still goes on match. Is this guy bad news or should I just relax and be fine with the fact that he still logs on to match. As such, some of the comments which I have preserved bring up points that I have since addressed in this revision. Right off the top, you mentioned that you and he have agreed to be exclusive. How clear was his side of the agreement to being committed? If I were in your shoes, I would say something along the lines of:
Ask a Guy: We’re Dating, But He Still Checks Match.com
We started seeing each other initially as friends — we have a lot of shared interests — and then one day he jumped on me and the relationship became increasingly physical. So far, so good — until we were both looking at something on his laptop, and a dating website came up as one of his most visited sites. I asked him about this, and told him that while I had no wish to pry into his personal life, the question for me was whether he was looking to keep his options open for now, it being early days. A quick Google search on his user name revealed another three, all with very recent logins. At that stage I was ready to end the relationship and leave him to it.
Quick update on this. We went on a date last night. I brought up the dating website thing pretty early, I did it in a joking way by saying i'd got an email off the website with a list of recommended girls to check out and her photo was one of them this did actually happen , so that explained why i knew she was back on the site.