Everything was moving along just as you would expect and you found yourself in a relationship with him. He was attentive to your needs. He was always excited to see you. He wanted to do things with just you two and everywhere you went, you were inseparable. BUT then something all too quickly happened.
Posted by Financial Samurai Comments Men are dogs. Which begs the question: There are way too many people who hate their jobs and keep on doing them, just like there are way too many women who settle for men who treat them poorly. What is it about non-ideal situations which makes us keep carrying on, doing nothing to change? He probably is reasonably attractive and tells a good story about his current situation and his ambitions.
For those women, oftentimes they need help in identifying the signs of such unreliable For those women, oftentimes they need help in identifying the signs of such unreliable men. He is a man who has a pattern of sweet talking women in an attempt to sweep them off their feet and into the nearest bed. He will wine you and dine you and tell you how beautiful you are and how lucky he is to have met you. These men are wonderful in the beginning of a relationship; however, in time they most always become less attached and more distant to their partner.
PIN Some women have terrible taste in men. It's not necessarily their fault -- there are subconscious forces at work in how we pick a partner. A woman who consistently goes for drunks, lowlifes, abusers, or otherwise unworthy men is often caught in the grip of an unacknowledged struggle with herself. She's doing something called "repetition compulsion" wherein she tries to recreate the dynamics of her past in order to finally gain mastery over them.