We have to get up the nerve to ask out a woman. We have to face potential gut-wrenching rejection. We have to come up with a unique date that will surpass all previous dates. We have to be charming, yet not lecherous, nice but not too nice, intelligent but not elitist, and we have to wear nice shoes lest we risk a begrudging face because of our lacking fashion sense. What do the women have to do?
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So instead, just listen to what she has to say and validate how she feels. Simply supporting her will create a stronger emotional connection between you. This alone can automatically get her to start feeling better. So just continue listening and empathizing with her situation. But the fact is women are more attracted to guys who set and enforce boundaries.
Check Your Past Baggage at the Door Source If you go into a new relationship carrying the baggage from the last relationship, expect problems. At some point you are going to have to learn to treat all of your new relationships as a clean slate, and stop blaming new guys for things that old guys did to you. Does this mean that your new relationships will have different results? Some of them may end in familiar ways, but at least you are giving them a chance to succeed at the start.